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Relationships · trust · money
Romance scam checker
before you act.
Trust can be used as pressure when a conversation moves quickly from connection to secrecy, crisis, or money. A calm second opinion can help you protect both your feelings and your accounts.
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Use the free check for a signal. Choose paid help when the hard part is turning one messy situation into a clear, shareable action plan.
See pressure, impersonation, payment, and access signals without an account.
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What to notice
Make the pressure visible.
These signals are reasons to pause and verify independently—not proof by themselves. Never paste passwords, one-time codes, payment details, or identity documents.
Isolation
The person discourages you from showing the conversation to friends, family, or a trusted adviser.
Emergency money
A sudden medical, travel, legal, or account problem becomes a request for a transfer, gift card, or crypto payment.
Unverifiable identity
The person avoids a normal verification step while asking for trust, secrecy, or access.
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What did they send you?
Paste a message, link, or offer below. This private, browser-based first check looks for common pressure patterns. Nothing is sent to a server.
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Questions worth asking.
Does refusing a video call prove someone is a scammer?
No single sign proves it. Look at the pattern: identity that cannot be independently verified, pressure to keep secrets, and requests for money or access are reasons to pause.
How can I help someone who may be targeted?
Stay calm and non-judgmental, avoid shaming them, encourage an independent second opinion, and help secure accounts and contact official financial or reporting channels.
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